Yesterday was such a wonderful day of reunion with Peter and Penny Yap. I am so thankful Yi Tong made this happen. We talked about this the last time bumped into each other during the pandemic.
Lin has been back for ten days to renew her passport, as well as to celebrate her father's 66th birthday. It is her first 回娘家 after January 2020. Being Lin, every moment back to her mother's home is to be seized and treasured. She will be returning to Dubai this evening.
We had lunch at Hakka Restaurant, which is known for its good food and ambience. The last time we had lunch together, Lin and Tong had just finished their education in MGSKL. Both of them have established their career since then, and Chien has also joined their league recently. At the table, the image of them in their turquoise pinafores reminded me how the years have slipped past.
I wish we had been closer all these years. Penny and Peter have imparted great family values to Tong and Yang, who is now lecturing in Melbourne. Penny is the epitome of a great mother - devoted and wise. I wish I had recorded our conversation for myself and other mothers to reflect upon. Among her lessons to her children:
* Everything must be based on truth.
You must never be afraid to share details of your daily dealings with your family. If something has to be concealed or distorted, it should serve as a warning.
* Family always comes first.
All important decisions should bring happiness to the family.
* Listen to your heart.
The capacity of the heart is wider than the head. She has always encouraged them to pursue their passions and achieve their ambitions.
* Always be sincere.
Do something because you want to, not because you have to.
We agreed that life can be so unpredictable, and children must learn how to live life well. I learnt many things from her during the lunch. She has never wavered in kindness and generosity, over the years I have known her.
Special thanks to Peter, Penny and Tong for a wonderful day.
